Well folks, it's not a positive story I have to tell here today: the true story of the classic Christmas card's funeral.
I remember the times when I sent about 80 Christmas cards every year, and got about 10 back in return. That was just about 6 years ago. This year, I sent more than 40 and only received 3 so far, all of them via internet and as part of mass e-mail communication. Now tell me, how would you feel about a Christmas card in your traditional P.O. box or as a letter... that kicks off with the words 'Dear all'? How impersonal can it get? I am outraged about the level of superficiality I can see in this respect, even among my friends.
A couple of years ago I received my first wholehearted Christmas greetings via SMS. While I can understand that people who aren't very close might choose a phone call or even an SMS to send greetings, the minimum I would expect is some kind of a dedication mentioning my name. Is it enough to content yourself with creating a template and then forward it to the world? I say no. But even this can be topped: use a Christmas SMS you have just received from someone else and forward it with all spelling mistakes to all your dear friends. For Christ's sake, is this what you would expect from your friends?
Probably it isn't. I can tell that honest Christmas greetings are different. And the same is valid for Eid as well by the way (probably also Hanouka, I am not aware it though).
Not that I am the most conservative and traditional person on earth, ya Allah. But to me, Christmas is something personal, and dedicating time to write Christmas cards by hand shows I am spending time in order to give my friends, family and close ones a smile on their face when they receive the card and open the envelope. I am spending time thinking about who should receive a card in first place, then weigh the words, ponder if I should write something funny which makes them laugh, or rather something a3di - normal. And in the end, there is a final little thrill when going to the local post office and hoping the card will reach friends, family and close ones before the festivities.
As said before, this year was the worst for me so far and I am a bit hazeen (sad) to see that year after year, things become less personal. But maybe next year, we will not even celebrate with our families and close ones, but have a multichannel webcam session where we can zap into whoever's living room we want. Merry Christmas. Zap.